OK, so I should say one thing first so that you know what you’re getting into when you read this post, but I shall say it loudly and clearly that this is going to be a wedding-related post. I try as hard as I can to not post about my forthcoming nuptials as much as possible because a) the thought of my wedding which I’m flying home for in just 20 short days makes my stomach tie in knots and makes me short of breath (yes, there’s lots still to do), so I don’t write about it for selfish reasons; and b) I appreciate that it’s probably not really that interesting to anyone else (I know hearing about other people’s weddings bores me rigid), so being the selfless and considerate blogging soul that I am, I have attempted to spare you the boring details. Aren’t I just the nicest person in the blogosphere? So I really don’t blame you if you want to stop reading now, as there’s simply no skirting around the issue here, as the whole reason that we went to Michigan was wedding related…..you see, my suuuHUUPER nice future in-laws wanted to throw me a wedding shower, and quite frankly, what person in their right mind would say no to that? So very late on Thursday night, 11.15pm to be exact, SoonToBeMrNin and I boarded a plane, and red-eyed our weary selves toward Michigan for the weekend to hang with his fam.

The trip involved a stop-over in Chicago for a welcome coffee break…

…before we boarded the smallest, tiniest, teensiest, weensiest commercial flight puddle-jumper plane ever that I was surprised didn’t actually have turbo prop engines…

We arrived the next day at about 8am, and spent the rest of the morning sleeping off the journey in the spare room. I should point out that this was quite a step up from last time we went (Thanksgiving last year) when we weren’t even allowed to sleep in the same room as each other (hellooooo, we’ve been officially living with each other for the past 18 months, and long-distance cohabiting for the past five years…). But although we were allowed to share the same night air this time, we certainly weren’t allowed to share the same bed, so we were on individual sleeping mattresses a whole foot apart (hellooooo, we’ve been officially living with each other for the past 18 months, and long-distance cohabiting for the past five years…). Let’s just say that Western Michigan is an extremely moral place to live. My shower the next day was so exciting! We got some awesome presents, I was amazed at how generous people were. I’m ashamed to admit that I didn’t really know anyone there, but they were mainly SoonToBeMrNin’s relatives, which is why I made him come along too, making it into a couple’s shower. Bless his heart, he played along with it well and even managed to do his share of squealing with delight at the sight of new china and glassware. And oh boy, the look on his face when we got the wooden tray (of course the not-ice-tea that was in his little lavendar dixie cup had nothing to do with it, I’m sure).

I accidentallymanaged to drop a bit of a bomb when I explained to them how my field of research was climate over the past 45,000 years (the majority of the attendees were likely creationists), but I managed to drop an even bigger bomb by revealing that SoonToBeMrNin and I had been living together for the past 18 months (I did mention that it was a moral place to live!), but I don’t think they held that against me. At least I hope not. I think they found it entertaining as I lived up so much to the liberal stereotype of a californian. Hehehe.


In fact, we got so many presents that it prompted the menfolk to gather around to discuss how we should get them home.

We actually ended up going back to Pottery Barn and explaining the situation, and they offered to ship everything back for us at a nominal cost. Cool huh? I think I’ll register with them each time I fly anywhere in the continental US that might involve receiving gifts. You can’t get much better than that!!
After that, SoonToMeMrNin’s brother and his wife took us golfing (they rock, they are a living, breathing, walking example of living a non-West-Michigan life within West Michigan. They eat donuts on a Sunday morning, and they let us share a bed when we visit them, what more do I need to say?).

And my nephew-to-be attempted to give me a lesson…

I actually wasn’t that bad for a beginner…check out my swing, and look at the lift that I got on the ball! Not bad, eh? He must be a god teacher. Or clearly I must be a complete natural.

Meanwhile, SoonToBeMrNin decided to goof around and show off, trying to prove that he was by far the coolest uncle to have ever walked the planet…

And of course my nephew-to-be decided to prove also that he was the coolest nephew to ever walk the planet…

But BY FAR the absolute most exciting thing of all about the weekend (aside from being showered with gifts and being the center of attention the entire time we were there) was the fact that there were FIREFLIES! Check them out, I’d never seen them before, and there were just SO MANY! Seriously, nothing can out-cool the awesomness of little bugs that shine little lanterns out of their backsides.

That’s actually my nephew-to-be in the photo above, diving fearlessly into the unknown with a jamjar trying to catch them. It doesn’t show in the photo as I’ve learnt how to use my camera and can change the exposure setting, but it was actually PITCH BLACK and there was a pond down there too and you couldn’t see at all where you were walking…let alone what you were diving into with full force after the bugs. Fearless, that’s what I said, he was FEARLESS. Ahhh, youth…
But anyway we had a thoroughly nice time. Clearly we should go back there more often as I fear that his parents are beginning to forget what he looks like in real life, as evidenced by the XXXL t-shirt that they got him from a vacation they went on a couple of months ago. I mean I know he’s not what you’d call a spindly beanpole….but XXXL? Of course, he was really pleased that they got him something, he wore it, he was happy, they were happy, and everything was right in the world.

And we made a mental note to travel to Michigan more often